tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7312769118261745865.post1211617176418179286..comments2024-03-18T05:46:19.496-04:00Comments on Lilia Ford: Readings From the Dark Side: How to write a rape scene, or a review of CetheLilia Fordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04663935138935805768noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7312769118261745865.post-73724070158655274852013-08-14T02:17:37.992-04:002013-08-14T02:17:37.992-04:00I am totally with you when it comes to non-consent...I am totally with you when it comes to non-consent in fiction. I think that it is an interesting dynamic, and one I enjoy a lot more in m/m than in m/f -- maybe because, as a female, it means I can enjoy it from a safe distance..? <br /><br />There's also something primal about the act of forced domination, whether sexual or not, and, in fiction, something liberating about it. <br /><br />And in exactly the same way, I can read (and write) non-consent, and I can play violent video games, and I can listen to music about suicide and killing, and obsession and anything else you can think of, but they in no way reflect on my real-life values, or influence my actions. <br /><br />Great post! Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00158737842921224998noreply@blogger.com